Some people tend to be choosy in finding their lifetime partner. Some base their love on good genes, pleasant physical attributes, money and the like. Some forget the real essence of true love. And for some reason, they end up being unhappy.
Love is not based on physical attributes, nor on money matters. What matters most is the personality of the person that you like. A handsome person may be good-looking now, but try to picture out that person 20 years from the present. Will you still be willing to love that person the way you loved him 20 years back?
Another point is that, when you center your love on physical matters, you tend to get bored - you tend to lose your temper and your patience. You easily see the inadequacies and imperfections of the person you are with. And because of this, you find yourself UNHAPPY and you try to look for someone to love again. And the cycle goes over again. The result? Unhappiness and discontentment.
